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Saturday, September 13, 2014

In re A.E. - Brooklyn ACS Lawyers Discuss Spanking as Discipline

Parents have the fundamental right to discipline their child as they see fit - within the confines of the law. However, our Brooklyn ACS lawyers recognize problems can arise when definitions of appropriate discipline vary.

Often a parent's cultural background and personal upbringing play a role in their views on discipline. In a place diverse as New York City, sometimes the chasm between interpretations can be wide.

The same might be said of Los Angeles, where the case of In re A.E. played out before the California Court of Appeal for the Second Appellate District, Division Eight. This case involved a young mother and father, both raised in rural Texas, who had moved to L.A. with their 3-year-old daughter.

One evening last summer, a neighbor called police after hearing a young child being spanked. The county sheriff's department responded, and found the young girl had two, six-inch welts on the back of her right leg, as well as several more on her buttocks.

The father, seemingly without hesitation, admitted he had struck the girl with his belt because she was misbehaving that day. Both parents considered spanking to be an appropriate form of discipline, though the mother denied knowing anything about welts on her daughter's legs.

The father was arrested for child abuse. After being red his Miranda rights, he told police the incident occurred when his daughter disobeyed her mother for the fourth time in less than one hour. The father was quoted as saying he did not act out of sport or fun, but "So that one day, just as I thank my parents for their care of me, she will do the same."

He indicated that he disciplined her with his belt on her butt. However, she turned at the last second, and he mistakenly struck her leg.

Following his arrest, a case worker with the state's family services agency opened a file on the family. The caseworker noted no signs of mental illness, drug abuse or any other circumstance that might indicate a danger to the child. The mother's uncle, who was temporarily living with the family, told the caseworker the parents were "good people" who were "doing their best" to raise the girl. He told the caseworker he had never seen either parent inappropriately discipline the girl.

The condition of the home was found to be safe and clean and all the child's needs were being met.The caseworker even noted the father was cooperative and motivated to change. He had even purchased a parenting book and later conceded to understanding why the discipline was not proper, and how he would react differently in the future.

And yet, a petition was filed by the state agency indicating the father was a danger to the child and should be removed from the home.

The court initially only allowed monitored visits between father and child, with the requirement he attend parenting courses. However, he was not permitted to have overnight visits in the family home.

He appealed on grounds that he was not a substantial danger to the child's physical and mental well-being. The appellate court agreed, finding the lower court failed to find by clear and convincing evidence the girl's health, safety, protection or physical or emotional well-being were in danger.

These kinds of cases can result in a substantial and unnecessary emotional and financial burden being placed on a family. Our attorneys are committed to helping your family achieve a swift and just solution to your ACS case that is in the best interest of you and your children.

For help with a Brooklyn ACS case, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

In re A.E. , Aug. 4, 2014, California Court of Appeal for the Second Appellate District, Division Eight

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In re J.T. - Grandparent Visitation Rights in New York, Sept. 1, 2014, Brooklyn Family Law Attorney Blog

Thursday, September 11, 2014

Brooklyn Divorce Lawyers Advise Women How to Protect Financial Interests

While income equality is more of a reality today than just a few decades ago, the fact is, many women still earn less than men. In the event of divorce, family law judges seek to equitably divide assets and establish support payments were necessary.

However, our Brooklyn divorce lawyers are well aware that far too often, women become financial victims in these situations. Ensuring that divorce settlements are fair - or more than fair - requires an experienced attorney who is emotionally removed from the turmoil.

One of the primary mistakes made by divorcing spouses (of both genders) is focusing too heavily on alimony, also known as spousal maintenance. Of course, there is nothing wrong with asking the question or with insisting that such payments be made. This is particularly true if the spouse making the inquiry has foregone career opportunities (or a career altogether) in favor of staying home to raise children or helping the other spouse to advance his career.

But here's the problem: Almost always, alimony is temporary. It's not a long-term solution to achieving self-reliance or long-term financial security. First, there is always the possibility the ex-spouse will abscond and simply not make payments. Or, he could become disabled, rendering him unable to work. He might die. All of these factors should be considered when weighing what other elements require focus.

Sometimes, provisions can be written into divorce agreements to allow payments for tuition or other educational training, which might help bolster your viability in the job market.

There should also be ample consideration for health insurance coverage and receiving a fair share of the pension/retirement fund.

Another common mistake is focusing too much on the house. This often proves one of the most self-defeating decisions in property settlements. There may be an emotional attachment to the property. They may believe keeping the children in the same home allows for greater stability as they make this difficult transition. While there is nothing inherently wrong with keeping the house, far too many people focus on this aspect without considering some of the more negative aspects. For one thing, many homes are underwater in the wake of the housing crisis. A home that is worth less than what's owed will quickly become a money pit. Beyond that, affording not just the mortgage but the maintenance on a home can become extremely difficult when household incomes are divided.

Consider too that even if you can afford the house, payments and maintenance may preclude you from setting aside any meaningful savings which, again, can help to ensure long-term financial security.

We often encourage exploring whether a home sale - with an equitable division of profits or debts - makes more financial sense.

Finally, one of the best ways to ensure you don't become a financial victim in a divorce is to plan properly. While it may seem one is never fully "ready" for a divorce, there are steps you can take to put yourself in a better position. Those measures include having access to funds and credit. Additionally, each party will want to make sure they can readily access important documents, such as checking account statements, tax returns, property deeds, vehicle titles, etc. Also, each party needs to know what they own - and what their spouse owns and owes.

Talking through all of this with an experienced divorce lawyer prior to filing will help ensure you are financially prepared for the next chapter of your life as an independent person.

If you are contemplating a divorce in Brooklyn, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

How Women Can Keep From Making Themselves Victims in Divorce, Sept. 4, 2014, By Laura Mattia, Baron Financial Group

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Brooklyn Divorce: What to Do With the House? July 30, 2014, Brooklyn Divorce Lawyer Blog

Wednesday, September 10, 2014

In the Matter of Serodio & Perkins - A Lost Prenuptial Agreement

Initiating a prenuptial agreement to parse out property division in the event of a split is smart. So is keeping track of the document once it's signed by both parties.

It was a failure to do the latter that caused trouble for one soon-to-be-ex-husband in the family law case of In the Matter of Serodio & Perkins, considered recently by the New Hampshire Supreme Court. Our Brooklyn divorce attorneys know that such records must be properly preserved and presented to the court in order to receive full consideration. Given what is potentially at stake, it may be wise to have multiple copies of the document (or better, multiple originals), in order to ensure it will be readily available.

The Seridio & Perkins case involved a couple who had been married since 1988. Just prior to their wedding, the pair each signed a prenuptial agreement stipulating how certain assets were to be divided in the event the marriage ended. One original document was signed by both parties, and was reportedly in the possession of the wife. She filed for divorce in 2010.

In 2011, the husband sought to enforce the prenuptial agreement. However, the wife claimed she was unable to find the original. The husband filed a request to allow the copy to be submitted as evidence in the event the original could not be found.

The wife responded she didn't remember signing a prenuptial agreement, never possessed one, and that even if she had signed it, such action would not have been voluntary but rather under duress.

In April 2012, the wife moved to dismiss the request to enforce the prenuptial agreement, arguing the husband failed to produce a copy of an agreement signed by her, and any assertion of an oral or unsigned agreement was unenforceable.

A hearing was held a few months later, and the husband acknowledged he'd been unable to locate either the original or a copy of the agreement. Considering this, the trial court granted the motion to dismiss the request for enforcement of the agreement.

An appeal followed. Husband argued the trial court erred in assuming the truth of the facts he alleged. Further, he alleged the court was wrong to consider only whether the agreement presently exists, rather than whether it had ever existed. The wife argued since no document was ever produced, the trial court properly determined it had no statutory authority to consider it.

The New Hampshire Supreme Court first clarified that the husband was not requesting consideration of an unsigned or oral agreement. Rather, he sought to enforce a prenuptial agreement that was both written and signed, even though he couldn't produce an actual copy of it for the court.

Accordingly, the court indicated, the question for consideration was whether the husband's factual allegations are reasonably susceptible of a construction that would permit recovery.  The court found that it was. In order to enforce a prenuptial agreement, the court pointed to the statute on the matter, the agreement had to have been in writing. However, the statute makes no specific mention of producing the writing. Nor does the  state law make any mention of how to prove such an agreement existed, absent a copy.

Other cases involving contracts that could not be produced were allowed to proceed to trial, and proof of those agreements was provided in the form of testimony by attorneys who had helped to draft them.

Further, the court found no prior case in which a party was precluded from presenting evidence of a prenuptial agreement that had been lost or destroyed. Thus, the earlier ruling was reversed and the case remanded.

However, this doesn't mean the husband will prevail. Ultimately, having the document (or at least a copy) in hand would have made his case far stronger.

Contact our Brooklyn divorce lawyers at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

In the Matter of Serodio & Perkins, Aug. 22, 2014, New Hampshire Supreme Court

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Tuesday, September 9, 2014

Tallo v. Tallo - Drafting an Unambiguous Divorce Agreement

At is core, a divorce settlement agreement is a contract. It is a binding document representing the obligations and expectations of both parties, and there are few circumstances under which courts will refuse enforcement.

Once of those circumstances, however, is ambiguity. Divorce lawyers in New York City know this is the kiss of death for any contract - including a divorce settlement.

In determining whether a divorce agreement (or any contract) is ambiguous, the court will analyze whether the agreement on its face is reasonably susceptible to more than one interpretation. This precedent was established in New York in the case of Stormer v. County of Oneida. Otherwise, when parties collaborate, through the divorce process, in setting forth a clear, complete document, the writing contained therein is enforced as a rule according to the terms.

This is why it's so important to hire a divorce lawyer who is committed to helping you draft a divorce agreement that is clear, complete, unambiguous and fully considers the benefits and consequences of each provision. When disputes regarding the contents of the agreement arise, the courts will give less credence to likely intentions of the parties involved, and more to the actual words contained therein.

This was an issue that came up recently in the case of Tallo v. Tallo, before the Supreme Court of the State of New York, Appellate Division, Fourth Judicial Department.

Here, the parties divorced with an agreement stipulating, among other things, payment of monthly alimony and a set number of annual disbursements from the husband's 401(k) to the wife's accounts. The alimony payments were to be made very month for a full five years. There were, however, a number of circumstances under which alimony payments could cease. These circumstances including provisions for remarriage, an increase in the ex-wife's income, etc.

The provision detailing the retirement account disbursements, however, contained no such provision. Instead, it indicated that on the first of every year, the husband was to make a $117,000 payment to his ex-wife from his 401(k) for a total of three years, with the last payment being made on January 2, 2013.

However, when the time came for that final disbursement payment to be made, the husband refused. He indicated that because his ex-wife's circumstances had changed, as outlined under the alimony section, he should not be required to pay.

But the court rejected this argument. The court noted it was clear there were no conditions or events in the contract that would relieve the defendant of his obligation to make those distributive payments. It didn't matter if the wife remarried. It didn't matter if she won the lottery. He would still have to pay.

While he would later argue this was not the intention of the parties, intentions did not matter. It was the wording of the contract that the court considered. The court  refused to apply the terms of one portion of the contract to another because to do so would essentially be to distort the meaning of the words used and thereby create a new contract for the parties under the "guise of interpreting the writing."

The bottom line is that it will be critical to communicate all concerns with your attorney before the settlement is signed, and further to ensure the agreement is drafted in a way that is clear and unambiguous, so that intentions cannot later be misinterpreted.

If you are contemplating a divorce in New York City, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

Tallo v. Tallo, Aug. 8, 2014, Supreme Court of the State of New York, Appellate Division, Fourth Judicial Department

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Robin Williams Joked of Divorce, but Alimony Had Been Costly for Actor, Aug. 15, 2014, New York City Divorce Lawyer Blog

Friday, September 5, 2014

Macchio v. Macchio - New York Child Custody Modification After Divorce

Modification of a child custody order in New York requires there be some sort of material or substantial change in circumstance since the previous order was issued. Our Brooklyn family law attorneys know failure to establish this will likely result in dismissal of the request, as was seen recently in the case of Macchio v. Macchio, an appeal of which was heard by the Supreme Court of the State of New York, Appellate Division, Second Department.

In this case,  the mother and father separated in 2012. The pair initiated a separation agreement, which granted the mother residential custody of their children while the divorce action was pending. Once the divorce was finalized, the domestic relations court judge incorporated (but did not merge) the separation agreement into the divorce agreement, and the mother retained residential custody of the children.

Two weeks after that decision was reached, the father filed a motion to modify the separation agreement and award him primary residential custody of the children.

The court did not hold a hearing, but instead based its decision to deny the motion on the facts contained in the father's petition. In that petition, the court found the father failed to provide any evidence that there had been a material change in circumstances that would support a finding that it would be in the children's best interests to come live with him instead of their mother. While the original separation agreement was two-years-old at that point, the divorce agreement had been entered just two weeks prior. Therefore, barring some extreme circumstance, the father would have had a tough time proving a substantial change in circumstance.

The court denied his motion. Upon appeal, he argued the court erred because it failed to conduct a hearing. However, the appellate court found it was within the trial court's discretion not to hold a hearing in resolving this dispute, per the case law established in Connor v. Connor, among other cases.

While child custody and visitation modifications can be requests at any time, the better approach in a case like this would have been to challenge the separation agreement pertaining to child custody before the divorce settlement was finalized.

One example of what may constitute as a "substantial change in circumstance" for the purpose of child custody modification might be a geographical move of one parent (usually the parent who currently has custody). If that move would make it difficult or impossible for the non-custodial parent to maintain a meaningful relationship with the child, he or she might have grounds to request a modification.

Another example would be if there has been a change in lifestyle that might be considered harmful to the child. For instance, if the custodial parent takes a job working the night shift, resulting in a child being left alone at night, the other parent may request a custody modification.

Considerations for a change might also be made in instances where there has been a change in financial or household circumstances. If the custodial parent is no longer able to physically provide for the child, due to his or her own illness, a change might be warranted. Similarly, if the needs of the child have substantially changed, such that the custodial parent is unable or unwilling to meet those needs, the court may grant modification.

Brooklyn family law attorneys can be reached at  (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

Macchio v. Macchio, Aug. 13, 2014, Supreme Court of the State of New York, Appellate Division, Second Department

More Blog Entries:

Brooklyn Divorce: What to Do With the House?  July 30, 2014, Brooklyn Family Law Attorney Blog

Monday, September 1, 2014

In re J.T. - Grandparent Visitation Rights in New York

One of the most heart-wrenching aspects of a divorce is the strain it can put on familial relationships outside the immediate family unit. At a time when children may most need the love and support of extended family, their access may be restricted due to  turmoil between spouses in an acrimonious split.

Our Brooklyn family law attorneys often receive questions regarding child visitation from extended family members, such as grandparents, aunts, uncles and great-grandparents. In general, New York is rather restrictive on this matter. Family courts have generally limited the rights of grandparents to visit their grandchildren, instead holding more firmly to the fundamental right of the parent to raise the child as they see fit. That fundamental right includes restrictions on who the children may visit.

However, there are sometimes exceptions, usually when one parent is deceased and the surviving parent has created distance. Strong cases might also be made when parents are teenagers, unable to fully support themselves. Even then, the court will consider the previous relationship of the grandparent and child and whether such visits would be in the child's best interest. While some courts have held firmly that extended family members may not seek visitation rights, exceptions have been made for grandparents when it was in the child's best interests.

In considering those "bests interests," the court will weigh the child's wishes, the physical and emotional needs of the child, the motivation of the parent who is limiting contact, the parents' morality, the parents' past behavior and conduct, the home environment and potential educational opportunities afforded by the grandparents.

A recent case out of California, reviewed by an appellate court in Los Angeles, illustrates how such an order might work. Although family laws vary from state-to-state, it's not impossible that a similar scenario might unfold here. In the case of In re J.T., the California Court of Appeal for the Second District, Division Eight, upheld the earlier-granted grandparent visitation rights.

According to court records, the mother was 16 and the child one-year-old when the juvenile court asserted dependency jurisdiction over the baby. The mother, too, was considered a dependent of the juvenile court. Evidence presented showed the mother had left the baby with her mother without making appropriate plans for his care, and without informing her mother of where she would be.

The court found the mother failed to consistently maintain a residence with her mother, and frequently left with the child without informing anyone of where they would be or when they would return, and without permitting a social worker sufficient access to the child.

Then, for several time periods - one lasting two years - the boy was placed with his paternal grandmother. Although the mother partially completed a reunification plan, her efforts were inconsistent. However, eventually, the court found she had completed enough of the requirements, and granted the mother custody of the boy.

At this point, the paternal grandmother sought visitation. She was granted unmonitored, overnight visits with the boy. The grandmother would later complain the mother was not making the child available for visitation. The mother responded she did not want the child to visit his paternal grandmother, and vowed to fight the order.

At a hearing, the mother said she did not have a good relationship with the grandmother, who she claimed made false allegations against her and interfered with her relationship with her son.

The agency overseeing child welfare testified on behalf of the grandmother, noting no false allegations had been made and pointing out the grandmother had done a good job of raising the boy most of his life up to that point.

The court ordered unmonitored, overnight visitation, with a review of the issue slated for the following year.

An appeal followed, with the mother arguing the mandatory visitation was a violation of her 14th Amendment rights to parent her child.

However, the appellate court found it would disrupt the child's stability to deprive him of contact with his paternal grandmother, with whom he had a very strong bond. Finding it in the best interests of the child, the appellate court affirmed.

If you are dealing with child custody or visitation  issues in Brooklyn, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

In re J.T., Aug. 7, 2014, California Court of Appeal for the Second District, Division Eight

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Brooklyn Divorce Attorneys: Help With Divorce by Publication, Aug. 20, 2014, Brooklyn Family Law Attorney Blog

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

In re J.A.L. - Guardianship of Elder Adults in Brooklyn

A growing number of requests for guardianship in Brooklyn are being filed by people hoping to protect the health and financial well-being of an elder adult. Usually, we see this with adult children seeking guardianship of their elderly parent in order to manage their affairs and oversee health care decisions when the parent suffers from dementia or is otherwise incapacitated and unable to make his or her own decisions.

These situations are guided by Article 81 of New York's Mental Hygiene Law.

In some cases, the parent lives with the adult child, and other times, he or she is cared for at a nursing home or assisted living facility. Our Brooklyn family law attorneys believe it's important to note that not all guardians in New York are granted the same powers. Orders are drafted specifically for each case so that guardianship authority is tailored specifically to be able to meet the needs of the incapacitated person. For example, some elderly adults may only require assistance to pay their bills, so the court would limit the guardian's power to financial management. In a case with a person suffering severe dementia, the court may give the guardian a much wider swath of power.

While the process in these cases is often straightforward and unchallenged, family conflicts do sometimes arise.

This was the case recently for the parties involved in In re J.A.L., overseen by the Montana Supreme Court. This was a difficult case where it was clear there were no easy answers. The court worked to act in the best interest of the incapacitated adult.

According to court records, the woman at the center of this case had been married to her husband for 50 years. During that time, the husband provided her with care in their home, as she suffered from both cognitive impairments and her mobility was limited by multiple sclerosis.

However, as time went on, the husband was unable to provide her with a sufficient level of care, even with assistance. As a result, she was taken to live in an assisted living facility.

However, the husband reportedly caused problems with the doctors, nurses and staff at the facility, and the wife was discharged. This series of events repeated itself again. The husband suffered an emotional breakdown and was admitted for care at a state hospital. When he was released, he stopped taking his prescribed psychiatric medication, as he did not like the side effects. He did not seek further treatment for his mental health issues.

Meanwhile, the wife's daughter and son sought, and received, appointments as co-guardians and conservators for their mother. She was placed into another assisted living facility, and appeared to do well. However, once the husband began to visit frequently, this changed. She began "acting out." The husband called sometimes 40 times in a single day and was disruptive when he was present. She was again discharged.

The woman's son and daughter had trouble in responding to these problems. A guardian ad litem was appointed for the woman, but the husband reportedly interfered with his wife's communication with the court-appointed GAL.

An emergency court hearing was held, and guardianship was transferred from the woman's children to her brother and sister-in-law. She was then re-admitted to the assisted living facility, on the condition she have no contact with her husband. She reportedly did well after that point.

The husband then filed two petitions with the court, seeking to remove the guardianship granted to his in-laws and to appoint him as his wife's guardian. The court held six hearings on the matter, and ultimately rejected his requests, and gave the in-laws full guardianship and granted them the authority to limit the woman's contact with her husband.

He appealed, but the lower court's order was affirmed. The Montana Supreme Court justices noted the woman's declining physical and cognitive health required that she have a guardian to oversee her affairs. However, the court ruled the husband was not in a position to do this, as he'd displayed a history of inappropriate behavior that did not serve to protect his wife's health and welfare. While the court has ruled that guardians can't initiate divorce proceedings for a ward, they can influence the marital relationship if it's in the best interest of the ward.

If you need help securing guardianship of an elderly loved one in Brooklyn, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

In re J.A.L., July 23, 2014, Montana Supreme Court

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In re Guardianship of Madelyn B. - Same-Sex Couple Custody Dispute, July 11, 2014, Brooklyn Family Law Attorney Blog

Sunday, August 24, 2014

Robinette v. Hunsecker - Securing Retirement Benefits in Brooklyn Divorce

One of the most important - and too often overlooked - elements in the allocation of property in a New York divorce is retirement benefits.

Brooklyn divorce attorneys recognize it has an increasing level of importance as more people are divorcing in middle age and even as seniors. But it should be given priority even in cases involving younger spouses because your portion of benefits accrued during the marriage could bolster your overall financial health in old age.

In the recent case of Robinette v. Hunsecker, before the Maryland Court of Appeals, a lawsuit was filed by the ex-wife of a deceased man whose widow collected the entirety of his retirement benefits, including a pension payout and death benefits. This ran contrary to an earlier-agreed division of property per the divorce settlement agreement reached many years prior. The ex-wife alleged unjust enrichment. The district court and later Maryland's highest court agreed.

To better understand the facts of this case, it's important to start with an explanation of the federal Employee Retirement Income Security Act of 1974 (often referred to as ERISA). This was a law that established a series of requirements to protect the retirement plans of private sector workers, and preempted state laws that ran to the contrary. One of ERISA's limitations is that it limits the ability of the worker to transfer pension benefits to another party. While this would seem to bar the transfer of pension benefits by a state court in a divorce action, the amended Retirement Equity Act of 1984 allows for an "alternate payee" to collect all or a portion of benefits, pursuant to a court order that adheres to federal statute requirements.

Many, but not all, retirement plans are governed by ERISA. For example, government worker pension benefits are specifically exempt from the law.

In this case, the ex-wife and the husband were married in June 1981. Throughout the course of their marriage, the husband worked at the local public school system and participated in the pension plan. After 17 years together, in 1998, the pair divorced. Per the terms of the divorce settlement, the ex-wife was supposed to receive a portion of her husband's pension benefits that were accrued during their marriage. This included death benefits.

The settlement agreement implied that the plan was overseen by ERISA and that the ex-wife was to be the alternate payee, set to receive 50 percent of the benefits that he had amassed during their union. However, the plan was exempt from ERISA, as it was a government-sponsored plan.

Two years later, the husband remarried. He listed his second wife as the beneficiary on his pension plan. he continued working at the school until his death in late 2009. His wife was named as the beneficiary of his estate. She received an initial payment of $4,100 and was set to receive a monthly amount of $2,100 thereafter.

The following spring, the ex-wife applied for her portion of death benefits under the retirement plan, pursuant to the divorce agreement. However, the pension fund never received a proper filing indicating the ex-wife was a beneficiary, so her request was rejected.

The ex-wife filed a lawsuit. Her attorneys determined that her portion of the monthly $2,100 benefits would be $600.

Both parties filed for summary judgment, and the court ruled in the ex-wife's favor. The court indicated the widow had done nothing wrong, but she was receiving a windfall of the ex-wife's portion of the pension.

The order was filed with the pension fund, and the ex-wife began receiving her monthly portion of benefits.

The wife appealed, though the order was affirmed both by the Court of Special Appeals and the state's highest court, which found the domestic relations order (or QDRO) was valid under state law, and therefore, the ex-wife was entitled to receive her portion of the benefits.

If you are contemplating a divorce in New York City, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

Robinette v. Hunsecker, July 18, 2014, Maryland Court of Appeals

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Brooklyn Divorce: What to do With the House? July 30, 2014, Brooklyn Divorce Lawyer Blog

Friday, August 22, 2014

Balogh v. Balogh - Enforceabilty of Prenuptial, Postnuptial Agreements

Prenuptial and post-nuptial agreements are considered binding contracts that can be legally enforced by the courts in the event of a divorce, even when the agreement runs contrary to what a judge might decide if given the discretion.

However, there is a chance that such agreements could be deemed unenforceable by the court. Our Brooklyn prenuptial agreement attorneys know this occurs mostly in cases where the balance of power was skewed (i.e., one party wasn't properly represented by legal counsel, one party felt bullied) or when the language contained therein is unclear or runs contrary to public policy.

Interpreting whether such contracts meet the criteria necessary in order to be considered legally binding will be up to the judge. However, as the recent case of Balogh v. Balogh shows, different courts may have varying interpretations.

According to the Hawaii Supreme Court records in this case, the primary issue of contention was the enforceability of a number of agreements the pair made during the marriage.

The couple married in 1981 in New Jersey. Both were well-educated with master's degrees and well-paying jobs.

 In 2003, they moved to Oahu and began construction of a home on a vacant lot they had purchased, using money the husband had inherited. Five years later, after a period of tension during their marriage, the parties signed a handwritten document, indicating if they were separated, the wife would retain 75 percent of the profits from the sale of the home, the contents (including the husband's tools and clothing) and all of their vehicles.

(The wife reportedly suspected the husband of an affair, and demanded that if he was serious about saving their marriage, they needed to "write something up.")

Several weeks later, the pair signed a typewritten "Memorandum of Understanding," which reiterated these points, as well as indicated the husband should pay the wife $100,000 in lieu of alimony and court costs.The wife would later say she was not intent on divorce at that point, but rather was trying to save the marriage.

Tension between the two continued, and the husband moved out of the marital home in August 2009. Several weeks later, he signed a quitclaim deed transferring his entire interest in the property to his wife for $10.

In January 2010, the wife filed a complaint for divorce.

The family court did not honor the agreements the pair had made. In spite of those documents, the court ruled each party should receive exactly one-half the interest in the property, valued at $1.6 million at the time of the divorce. The court ruled it would be unconscionable to enforce the deed or other agreements because the husband acted under coercion and duress.

The wife appealed, and the appellate court reversed, finding the contracts enforceable because the husband had signed them voluntarily.

The husband appealed this order.

In its review, the state supreme court first ruled the quitclaim deed did not amount to a separation agreement that altered either party's right to equitable division of property such that the wife should receive the entire portion of it. Therefore, the court found the quitclaim deed unenforceable. 

However, the Memorandum of Understanding, the court found, was enforceable because it was entered into voluntarily. The court noted both parties were well-educated, there was no indication the wife had made threats to the husband in order to force him to sign and there was no indication of any improper methods of persuasion. Additionally, the language was clear and unambiguous.

If you are contemplating a divorce in New York City, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

Balogh v. Balogh , Aug. 7, 2014, Hawaii Supreme Court

More Blog Entries:

Brooklyn Divorce: What to Do With The House? July 30, 2014, Brooklyn Divorce Lawyer Blog

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Brooklyn Divorce Attorneys: Help With Divorce by Publication

Some people want nothing more than to never see their spouse again - if only they could be found first.

Divorce in cases in which one spouse can't be located are challenging because one of the key points in any civil court case is serving notice to the other side of what is occurring, affording them due process and the opportunity to respond accordingly.

However, if you can't locate your spouse, you aren't expected to remain married to them indefinitely. Our Brooklyn divorce lawyers are familiar with a process called divorce by publication, which allows parties to obtain a valid divorce, even when one of the parties cannot be found. The process is also sometimes referred to as a "no signature divorce," because the other party is not available to provide a signature on the notice forms or other documents.

While a missing husband or wife would seem a cause of great alarm for some, for others, it may be a rather unsurprising continuation of a pattern, perhaps even a core reason for seeking a divorce in the first place. Others may involve spouses who have been separated and out of contact for years, but never officially sought a divorce. 

Divorce by publication is only allowed in situations where a judge has been convinced, based on a sworn declaration, that the person initiating the divorce has tried diligently to find the other party to no avail.

In order to satisfy the judge's concerns that you have conducted a thorough search, you will likely require the guidance of an experienced divorce lawyer.

He or she will likely begin by searching the following places:

  • Within the five branches of the U.S. Military.
  • The Board of Elections where your spouse was last known to reside.
  • The New York Department of Motor Vehicles.
  • The Post Office in the region where your spouse was last known to reside.
  • A search of telephone and Internet directories in the area your spouse was last known to reside.
  • Any known living relatives or friends with whom your spouse may still be in contact.

All of these efforts must be carefully documented. If any of these searches turns up a lead, it must be followed through with an investigation. If a person is found with your spouse's same name, a full investigation must be conducted to confirm his or her identity before notice of divorce action is served.

If all of this turns up nothing, at that point, we can file a motion requesting the court allow for an Order of Publication. The request will list all search efforts and demonstrate to the judge that you made every reasonable effort to locate your spouse, and yet were unsuccessful.

If the judge grants and order of publication, that order must be published as a legal notice in a newspaper. The notice will clearly state you are seeking a divorce action against your spouse. This will effectively serve as legal "notice" and "summons."

In order to be valid, an Order of Publication has to be published in the newspaper within one month of the judge signing off on it. The order will specify which publication the notice will appear, and will most usually be one in the jurisdiction where your spouse was last known to live. Additionally, the order will specify how many times the notice has to appear, usually three times within a three-week period.

If there is no response from the spouse within a month of the the final notice, you are entitled to file for divorce by default. That means once your papers are approved by a judge, your divorce can be granted. While every case is different, the entire process for divorce by publication in New York usually takes about one year.

To learn more about how we can help, contact us today.

If you are contemplating a divorce in New York City, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

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Friday, August 15, 2014

Robin Williams Joked of Divorce, but Alimony Had Been Costly for Actor

The late beloved actor Robin Williams had one of the most enduring careers in Hollywood history. And yet, two divorces - one in 1998 and another in 2008 - effectively decimated his bank accounts.

He would later joke that divorce was expensive, particularly alimony, which he said should be called "all the money." He added, "It's ripping your heart out through your wallet."

Our New York City alimony lawyers know that while it may seem someone like Williams could have well-afforded to make maintenance payments to his exes, the fact that he struggled financially after the settlement shows how universal the issue is.

Years ago, alimony used to be a given in the event of a marriage dissolution. Largely, this had to do with strict gender roles, wherein the husband was the primary wage-earner, while the wife stayed home and raised children. In this situation, a wife who contributed equally to a marriage would face an unfair financial burden in the event of a divorce. Alimony was a common remedy.

Today, that scenario is far less common. Alimony is still awarded in some cases, but it is usually only for a set period of time, as it is intended to serve as a means to smooth the transition for the party who earns less.

In New York, the 2010 overhaul of divorce law enacted a number of changes. One of those was to set a strict formula for judges awarding temporary alimony during the divorce proceedings. The idea was that low-income residents who couldn't afford attorneys deserved to be treated fairly, and the courts needed to implement a way to maintain consistency.

However, it's proven problematic in some ways for wealthier couples because it looks almost solely at salary. It does not factor in savings accounts, mortgage payments and things like fluctuating annual bonuses. While judges have the ability to deviate from the formula, they are required to pen a detailed explanation each time they do. Having an experienced family law attorney to represent your interests at each phase in the process is important.

It's important to note there are temporary alimony orders, which are implemented while the divorce proceedings are ongoing, and then permanent alimony orders that are included in the divorce settlement agreement. It's not uncommon for a spouse to receive temporary alimony, but then be denied permanent alimony once the order is finalized.

Even when alimony is "permanent," there is usually a date on which it expires, or certain conditions, such as remarriage, that make it void.

In Williams' case, although the exact details of his divorce agreements were private, the actor was reportedly paying tens of millions of dollars to each of his ex-wives. The New York Posts reports he paid between $20 million to $30 million to his ex-wives. Despite a prenuptial agreement signed by his first wife, he was ordered by the court to pay her $50,000 monthly for life. That was back in 1988.

These payments reportedly would have been in addition to child support obligations and division of other assets.

Although his net worth was estimated to be at $130 million, he put a sizable chunk of that money into a trust for his three children. In recent years, he began selling off certain assets. His $30 million Napa Valley home was still listed for sale at the time of his death.

If you are contemplating a divorce in New York City, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

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