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Friday, June 20, 2014

New York City Stepparent Adoption Process Requires Careful Legal Review

Blended families are more frequently becoming the norm throughout the U.S.

With this, our New York City family law attorneys have seen a growing number of stepparents who wish to legally remove the "step" from the relationship with the initiation of a formal adoption.

There can be a host of benefits to making the tie between parent-and-child a legal one. There is of course the emotional aspect of it. Additionally, there may be certain health care and other benefits that may only be conferred from the stepparent to the child if he or she is considered the legal parent. Plus, it ensures that should anything happen to the other spouse, the stepparent will have the unquestionable right to assert child custody.

In most cases, unless the other biological parent is deceased, the first step toward a formal stepparent adoption is termination of parental rights of the other biological parent. For some, this is a relatively simple matter, particularly if the other parent's absence involves, for example, an extended period of incarceration that is unlikely to end soon.

In New York, a biological parent can voluntarily choose to forfeit their parental rights and responsibilities. In other cases, it may be necessary to seek a court order to forcibly terminate parental rights. In order for the latter to take place, the biological parent whose rights are in jeopardy must have abandoned the child, or in other words have had no contact for a period of six months or more. Even then, termination of parental rights are not necessarily guaranteed. It will be up to the stepparent and his or her spouse to prove why such action is in the best interest of the child.

The recent case of Wayne G. v. Jacqueline W., before the Nebraska Supreme Court, was an example of where the termination of parental rights for the purpose of stepparent adoption was upheld. Although this is an out-of-state case, the same legal principles are applicable here in New York.

In this case, a couple met in California, had a daughter together there and then separated, with the mother taking the child to Nebraska in 2006. Five years later, the father sought to establish paternity and parenting time. The mother responded by affirming he was the biological father, but asserted he was not a fit parent, and filed for termination of his parental rights.

At the hearing, the mother presented evidence from numerous witnesses of past physical abuse, not just on her but on previous spouses and even children. She also provided documentation of his extensive struggle with crack cocaine addiction, and his lengthy criminal record, which included felony convictions. She also indicated that his parental rights to other children had been terminated. Further, she had remarried and her new husband wished to adopt the girl, who called him "daddy."

The father conceded his checkered past, but insisted he had changed his life in three years preceding and was ready to be a father to the child in question. He testified he'd been two years clean, was properly medicated and had a good relationship with his long-term girlfriend's children.

The county court sided with the mother in finding termination of the biological father's parental rights were in the best interest of the child. An appellate court affirmed, and so did the state supreme court.

Courts generally will not agree to terminate parental rights unless there is strong cause to suggest it is in the child's best interests. Evidence of prior abuse, drug addiction and abandonment may all lay a solid foundation for this claim. There could be other grounds as well, depending on the circumstances in your case.

Contact us today to learn more about how we can help.

Call our New York City Family Law offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

Wayne G. v. Jacqueline W., June 6, 2014, Nebraska Supreme Court

More Blog Entries:

Davidson v. Carrilo - Importance of Attorney Representation in Brooklyn Child Custody Matters, May 30, 2014, New York City Family Law Attorney Blog


Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Always Consider Tax Implications in Brooklyn Divorce Asset Division

When it comes to property division in divorce, there is no one-size-fits-all answer that is going to work in every case. That said, our Brooklyn divorce attorneys believe there is often a right and a wrong answer in each individual case, depending on the assets in question and the people involved.

It's our goal to ensure each eligible asset is included and carefully considered prior to any sort of division or liquidation efforts. The key is to have someone with experience on your side. Often, there can be unintended consequences with certain types of account divisions and liquidation that could end in an unfair penalty or burden on one party or the other if your counsel isn't careful.

To understand our approach, it's first important to get a sense of how the state views asset division in a divorce. New York follows the equitable distribution model. This is a method that aims to divide a couple's marital belongings fairly. To be clear, "equitable" does not mean "equal."

It's not uncommon for a spouse who worked for years as a stay-at-home parent to receive the lion's share of the divorce settlement, after the judge weighs each spouse's income, age, health, marriage duration, nest egg and probable future financial circumstances.

That scenario, however, is becoming less common as it is more likely that both spouses have maintained careers outside the home.

Spouse's may agree on all the surface issues - one gets the car, the other gets the house, one pays the credit card, the other pays the mortgage, etc.

Where it can start to get tricky is when we examine how some of these decisions impact your taxes and other long-term financial health.

For example, if the spouses agree to liquidate the 401(k), that's likely going to mean a huge tax bill the following year on which you likely weren't counting and probably won't have the capital on hand to cover. That can be the start of a downward financial spiral.

Another potentially costly mistake some couples make is choosing to hold onto the family home. For many people, we find this is a purely emotional decision. Unfortunately, the cost of keeping a family home on one income simply isn't sustainable for most people, and it can result in more debt for both parties than it's worth. A prime example is a wife who is forced to refinance the mortgage in order to take the husband off the loan, only to find out that he doesn't qualify to take on the new mortgage solo.

Typically, however, the most mistakes occur because there is a failure to fully consider the tax implications of asset division.

Let's say the husband decides to keep a home with $500,000 equity. Meanwhile, the wife cashes out the 401(k) valued at the same dollar amount. The reality is that up to one-third of that account could go to taxes. On the surface, it may all look even, but the facts will ultimately bear out otherwise.

In most situations, your Brooklyn divorce lawyer will look to liquidation of assets as a last resort. The reason is that this action in itself is taxable. Meanwhile, a transfer of assets between spouses is not something on which the government can issue a tax.

Assets should always be assessed on an after-tax basis. It's important to make sure the cost basis of investable assets are fully understood. If you own a business, you'll want to make sure there is a good business valuation on any real estate, equipment, customer bases, etc. All collectibles should be appraised. Additionally, we generally advise it's a bad idea to liquidate a 401(k) (if it's at all avoidable), and warn against selling any asset without first getting a fair price. This protects both parties.

Tax considerations are especially important when weighing the division of stock, options and deferred compensation rights.

If you are contemplating a divorce in Brooklyn, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

Not always a rose: avoiding thorny asset liquidation issues in divorce, June 14, 2014, By Deborah Nason, CNBC

More Blog Entries:

Requests for New York Child Custody Modifications Must be Convincing, June 15, 2014, Brooklyn Divorce Lawyer Blog


Sunday, June 15, 2014

Requests for New York Child Custody Modifications Must be Convincing

Family court judges aren't apt to create a disruption in the lives of children by altering the child custody agreement unless it can be proven that there is a good reason for it.

Brooklyn child custody modification lawyers know that in order to alter a previously-established parenting arrangement, the moving party needs to show there has been a material change in circumstances. He or she must also show why a modification is in the best interests of the child.

Courts will generally strive to place children in a joint physical custody arrangement, wherein both parents share equally (or at least equitably) in parenting time. However, sometimes that is simply not possible, particularly if one or both parents is moving out of the area.

A move would be considered a "material change," but whether it is in the best interests of the child to stay or go will be up to the court, regardless of who held primary custody originally.

This was the issue at hand in the recent case of Schroeder v. Schroeder, reviewed by the North Dakota Supreme Court.

According to court records, the pair married in 1999 and had two children, one in 2000 and another in 2002. Five years after the birth of their second child, the pair sought a divorce. According to the original custody agreement, they were awarded joint legal and physical custody of the children.

Two years later, the mother moved out-of-state, and sought to obtain primary physical custody of the children. The father opposed the motion, and subsequently filed his own, requesting primary residential custody. Each indicated there had been a material change in circumstances requiring an alteration of the earlier custody agreement.

The district court sided in favor of the father.

Another two years passed. The mother informed the father that the following year, she intended to move to  yet another state. Around the same time of her move, the father moved to Florida, with both the children. He dropped the children off with their mother in her new home state for their summer parenting time. While the children were in her care, she filed a motion to amend judgment, again requesting primary physical custody. The father opposed.

In August of that year, the father moved for an order to show cause why the other shouldn't be held in contempt when she failed to return the children to him in Florida following the conclusion of their summer visit. In September, the court denied the mother's motion, reasoning there had been a material change in circumstance, but she failed to establish that her request was in the best interest of the children. The court further ordered her to return the children to their father in Florida.

The mother appealed, saying the district court erred in failing to fully consider her arguments. The state supreme court addressed them one-by-one.

In the first argument, she contended the father "has expressed in correspondence" to both her and the kids his intention to infringe upon and restrict her parenting time. However, she did not submit to the court any copies of such correspondence, and neither did she provide affidavits by either child that supported this allegation.

Secondly, she indicated the children were distraught about their move to Florida, saying they'd had little time to say goodbye to friends, teachers and family members. The court didn't doubt  her firsthand accounts of this, but said the allegation ignores that the children would have had to relocate regardless, whether they lived with her or their father.

Thirdly, she argued the children had a tough time being separated from their half-siblings. Again, the court indicated they would be separated regardless of which parent was awarded custody.

Fourth, she asserted that her older child preferred to stay with her. While the preference of a mature child is generally weighted by the court, the mother provided no affidavit from the child to back this assertion.

Fifth, she indicated that the schools in her new home state were superior to those in Florida, and could better meet the needs of the children, one of whom was developmentally disabled. However, she failed to provide any information to the court to prove this.

Finally, she alleged that the children would be living with their paternal grandfather, whom she claimed routinely threw large parties with copious amounts of alcohol. However, the father denied he and the children would be living with his father, and further, contended his ex-wife hadn't provided any proof of her allegations.

Based on all this, the court indicated that while a move by both parents was considered a material change in circumstance, the mother failed to prove that staying with her would be better for the children.

If you are contemplating a Brooklyn child custody change, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

Schroeder v. Schroeder, May 2014, North Dakota Supreme Court

More Blog Entries:

Davidson v. Carillo - Importance of Attorney Representation in Brooklyn Child Custody Matters, May 30, 2014, Brooklyn Child Custody Lawyer Blog


Friday, June 13, 2014

Report: 1 in 3 Marriages With Sick Spouse Ends in Divorce

Couples vow on their wedding day to care for one another in both health and sickness. However, a new study conducted by researchers at the University of Michigan suggests a growing number of spouses aren't holding up the latter half of that bargain. One-third of marriages in which a spouse falls ill ends in divorce, researchers say.

It appears whatever flaws exist in a union become amplified with the stress and hardship of one spouse falling seriously ill.

Divorce attorneys in New York City recognize that these cases require special attention. For example, issues of health insurance become matters of key importance. Judges deciding child custody may factor in the ill parent's ability to provide for the child's day-to-day needs. Spousal support, too, may be ordered to the ailing person, where it otherwise might not have been, depending on the severity of the illness and expected outcome.

For this study, researchers sifted through data on more than 2,700 marriages and outcomes over the course of two decades, beginning in 1992. The study authors analyzed how the onset of one of four serious physical illnesses affected marriages. Specifically, they looked at cancer, lung disease, stroke and heart problems. What they found was 31 percent of those marriages affected by one of these illnesses ended in divorce.

Women in particular seem to be at a double disadvantage. Men were most often the ones who developed these diseases, so they were at higher risk of becoming widowed. Conversely, when it was the woman who fell ill, there spouse was twice as likely to file for divorce, as compared to when the situation was reversed.

Researchers didn't specifically delve into this disparity as part of the formal data mining, but they did generate a few theories. The first theory is that social expectations and gender norms regarding care taking could make it tougher for males to provide care to ailing wives. Secondly, because men tend to die sooner, the more they age, the more prospective partners they may find among divorced women.

This same pattern has borne out in previous studies. In both 2001 and 2009, researchers at the Penn State School of Medicine analyzed the issue and found married women are more likely to become separated or divorced following a terminal illness diagnosis.

If an ill spouse maintains health insurance through the other, sometimes it can be best to postpone or cancel the divorce proceedings, if at all possible, in order to ensure continued health care coverage through the course of the illness. However, sometimes that simply isn't ideal or possible. In those cases, a divorce attorney can work to have your spouse's health insurance coverage continue as part of the divorce settlement or spousal maintenance award, at least until Medicare, Social Security Disability or some other form of insurance and/or financial assistance can be made available.

Additionally, spouses in this situation may need additional assistance with estate planning documents. Records for health care power of attorney, advanced medical directives and your will may need to be revised. One must be careful how this is done, however, because once a divorce is filed, most assets are likely to be lumped into the "marital estate" and can't simply be gifted or transferred without prior approval from the court.

If you are contemplating a divorce in New York City, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

'Til sickness do us part: How Illness Affects the Risk of Divorce, May 1, 2014, University of Michigan's Institute for Social Research

More Blog Entries:

Boulds v. Nielson - Just Because You Weren't Married Doesn't Mean You Won't End Up in Court, May 16, 2014, New York City Divorce Lawyer Blog


Wednesday, June 11, 2014

New York Court Wrangles With Asset Division With One Spouse Deceased

While divorce isn't always inevitable, death is. Unfortunately, sometimes the two intersect.

In many cases, this frankly simplifies matters. For example, there is usually no longer a need to battle an estranged spouse on matters of child custody, visitation or maintenance costs.

However, Brooklyn divorce attorneys recognize there are many situations in which a death in the midst of divorce could make matters more convoluted. Take for example the Yonkers case of Bordas v. Bordas.

She was a Naval reservist who had retired from the military to become a high school social studies teacher. He was also a teacher, which was how the pair met. They married and had two daughters.

But then, in 2012, after more than a dozen years of marriage, the husband filed for divorce, citing an irretrievable breakdown of their relationship. Less than six months later, the 38-year-old wife committed suicide after consuming a lethal mix of prescription drugs.

That might have ended proceedings right there. However, the widower then learned that his deceased wife, before she died, removed him as a beneficiary from her retirement account and life insurance policies. Instead, she named their two daughters, ages 10 and 13, as beneficiaries. This alone might not have been a major issue, but for the fact that she indicated if something happened to the girls, the entire $500,000 payout should go to her boyfriend.

Soon after, the widower filed a motion in the divorce case, which was still pending, arguing that the transfer of money and assets prior to her death violated legal guidelines. Generally, those assets and accounts would be considered marital property, meaning it would be subject to equitable division.

However, the fact that she is deceased could mean the husband won't be able to do much about it. A Westchester state Supreme Court justice called the wife's actions "regrettable," noting that the wife had seemingly "reached beyond the grave" to stymie her estranged husband's efforts to recover his share of assets, he said there was simply nothing the court could do to remedy the violation.

An attorney representing the husband called the ruling "unfair" in a quote offered to the New York Post. She said an appeal may be the appropriate next step. She cited other examples where courts will seek to hold people responsible for actions even after their deaths. For instance, police may issue a citation to a deceased drunk driver who caused a crash resulting in injury and death to others.

While a criminal trial might not proceed such action, a civil trial might.

There is evidence to suggest the ruling in this case is outside the norm. Many states have held that the death of a spouse during divorce results in the termination of continuing maintenance payments, they have also generally held that the surviving spouse should still at the very least receive his or her fair share of the marital property. In some instances, lump sum alimony awards have been granted from the deceased party's estate.

Additionally, surviving spouses can't assume that the divorce action will be dropped entirely after a death.

Though the assets acquired during the marriage might be in both party's names, once the divorce action is filed, equitable interest in the property becomes vested as part of the estate, and may still be divided. Whatever is left in your former spouse's estate might then go to any beneficiaries he or she has named.

Of course, you can't know at the beginning of a divorce proceeding whether death is on the horizon for either of you. Preparing for the possibility by hiring an experienced divorce attorney will assure you that in the event of an untimely passing, your interests will be defended.

If you are contemplating a divorce in Brooklyn, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

Judge denies man's divorce asset claim a year after wife's suicide, May 26, 2014, By Julia Marsh and Erin Calabrese, The New York Post

More Blog Entries:

White v. Howard - Life Insurance Policy May be Considered a Form of Alimony, May 26, 2014, Brooklyn Divorce Lawyer Blog


Monday, June 9, 2014

Stanley v. Stanley - Marital Misconduct and Impact on Property Division in New York Divorce

New York was late to the no-fault divorce bandwagon, being the last state in the country to approve the proceedings in 2010.

However, New York City divorce lawyers know this does not mean neither party will be held culpable for misdeeds during the marriage, especially when that misconduct is financial in nature. For example, a husband who spends thousands of dollars buying jewelry and other gifts for a mistress will likely have to account for that money during the divorce settlement. So too will a wife who squanders a fair portion of a joint savings account to feed a gambling addiction.

The courts also have specific means of dealing with individuals who attempt to purposely sell off marital property in an effort to keep it from the spouse. This particular action is referred to concealment of assets by fraudulent conveyance.

This issue was addressed recently in Stanley v. Stanely by the West Virginia Supreme Court, which also has specific laws regarding the conveyance of marital property. There, state statute says that spouses have 30 days to notify one another of real estate conveyance. If they don't and a divorce is filed within five years of that conveyance, the other spouse is entitled to compensation for what would have been his or her share of that property.

Here, the wife entered the marriage with 27 acres of land, on which her home was located. The husband moved in, provided $30,000 for her to pay off the deed trust on the property (so that she could legally own it in full) and additionally made various improvements to the property over the years.

Following a decade of marriage, the pair sought a divorce. The husband initially offered to forfeit his interest in the property - and the marital home on it - if she would simply reimburse him his $30,000. She agreed at first, but then later backed out.

The court would later learn that instead, she legally gifted the property to her five adult children. She reportedly did so without providing notice to her husband of this deal.

The family court agreed that notice was not properly given, and ordered that the value of the property be considered as marital property for purposes of equitable distribution. That ruling was reversed by the circuit court, but then that ruling was reversed by the state supreme court, which backed the family judge's ruling.

As the property already legally belongs to a third party (the children), the court, in seeking equitable distribution, will likely offset that value against whatever the wife would have otherwise been awarded. So for example, her entitlement to her ex-husband's life insurance benefits, retirement accounts, savings, etc. could be significantly curtailed as a result of the decision.

New York spouses who believe they have been similarly taken may wish to take action under the Uniform Fraudulent Conveyance Act, codified in N.Y. Debt. Cred. Law. §§ 270 – 281.

An example of this was the lawsuit of Bloomfield v. Bloomfield, in 2001, wherein the wife accused both her husband and his brother of concealing marital estate assets, with the husband transferring property to his brother prior to the divorce. The court held that she could pursue damages under the UFCA.

Further, the 2006 ruling in Jackson v. Brinkman indicated that a divorcing spouse can forfeit the right to recover a certain marital asset if the claim of wrongful transferee of marital property is not properly joined to a pending divorce case. Knowing whether such action is appropriate requires the review of an experienced New York divorce lawyer.

If you are contemplating a divorce in New York City, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

Stanley v. Stanley, May 27, 2014, West Virginia Supreme Court

More Blog Entries:

Expectancy of Interest Argument Against Property Inclusion in Marital Estate, May 22, 2014, New York City Divorce Lawyer Blog


Saturday, June 7, 2014

Brooklyn Child Support Modification Requests Must be Preceded by Significant Changes

Court-ordered child support payments are set based on a number of factors, including both parties' income, obligations and the needs of the children.

Given that such careful consideration is made to the determination of this figure, Brooklyn child support modification attorneys are well aware that judges aren't inclined to modify the original order unless there has been a material change in circumstance.

The term "material" is one that is widely left open to the interpretation of the court. For example, if you were laid off from your job and are only accruing unemployment benefits, the court may agree to temporarily reduce your payments. Alternatively, if you are fired from your job because you didn't show up or failed a drug test, the court may determine this is a willful violation, and in turn refuse to modify your payments.

It's going to be up to your lawyer to make the best possible argument in your favor.

In the recent case of Garza v. Garza, before the Nebraska Supreme Court, the justices were tasked with determining whether the family court's grant of a father's child support modification request was proper, as the decision was appealed by the mother.

According to court records, the pair were married in the summer of 2005. Not six months later, a son was born to them, and that same month, the mother filed for divorce against the father.

The original divorce decree/parenting plan allocated primary custody to the mother, with weekend visitation given to the father, who was required to pay $500 monthly in child support.

In early 2010, the father was unemployed and subsequently moved out-of-state to obtain work. He later filed a motion for a material change in circumstance, based on his lesser-salaried new job and his out-of-state move.

The mother subsequently filed an order to show cause why the father shouldn't be held in contempt for willfully and contemptuously violating the earlier court ruling. He was indeed found in contempt, based on his being nearly $8,000 in arrears in child support, plus another $10,600 he owed her for child care expenses and $31,000 he had yet to pay her per the divorce property settlement.

The court agreed to purge his contempt if he paid $3,000 in child support upfront and kept current on his subsequent payments. He did so, and the contempt was purged.

However, soon after, he was laid off. He filed an amended application for modification, citing not only his new unemployment, but also the fact that the child had since become school-age, meaning day care expenses were significantly reduced.

The court did ultimately reduce his payments from $500 monthly to $305 (rejecting his request to make them $50 monthly). It also determined the mother was not required to meet the father half-way to aid in his visitation so long as he remained unemployed, and that once he had again found work, he was to pay her $2,500 in attorneys' fees.

He appealed on the grounds the court erred in reaching the transportation arrangement it did and insisted his payments should have been further reduced and that he should not have to pay his ex's attorney. The mother cross-appealed on the grounds that the court erred in slashing the child support award.

The state supreme court upheld the modification, finding no reversible error.

The court could find no indication that the father's two bouts of unemployment were the result of bad-faith, and they did constitute a material change in circumstance that warranted a reduction of child support. Still, the court weighed his earning capacity, as opposed to his actual income, in determining what the set rate should be. This, the high court ruled, was appropriate.

For the most part, judges aren't interested in creating a windfall for one parent or leaving the other destitute. They do generally strive to reach a fair conclusion that is ultimately in the best interests of the children involved.

Still, having an experienced legal advocate to sympathetically explain to the court your circumstances will help allow you to provide for your children in a way that is  adequate, fair and manageable.

Those with questions about Brooklyn child support modification petitions should call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

Garza v. Garza, May 23, 2014, Nebraska Supreme Court

More Blog Entries:

U.S. v. Fuller - Failure to Pay Child Support Results in Severe Consequences, May 28, 2014, Brooklyn Child Support Modification Lawyer Blog


Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Domestic Violence in Brooklyn Divorce Cases Must be Handled Carefully

Domestic violence can be the catalyst for a Brooklyn divorce filing. Unfortunately, a divorce filing can also result in the escalation of abuse.

In fact, the most dangerous time for a victim is when she finally makes known her plan to leave. Domestic abuse is all about control. Once an abuser fears a loss of control, he or she may become a serious threat.

Our Brooklyn divorce attorneys are well-versed in handling sensitive cases such as these. We not only help victims coordinate with local social service agencies to formulate a safe exit strategy, we can help file orders of protection on behalf of yourself and your children. We can also work to help you extricate yourself from the legal trappings of the relationship in a way that requires you to have little to no contact with your ex. This includes addressing your child custody and visitation concerns. If you can show the court that your children have witnessed abuse by your partner or suffered it themselves, the court may choose not to award visitation at all.

But again, these cases have to be handled with great care, not only for the safety of the victim, but also for the success of your divorce. The allocation of assets and property as well as potential child custody and maintenance determinations will have a significant bearing on your ability to move forward. If handled incorrectly, you may find yourself in an unfavorable situation. 

Such was the case for an alleged victim recently in Yelena R v. George R., a matter weighed by the Alaska Supreme Court.

According to court records, the pair in this case were involved in an on-again off-again relationship for more than 10 years. They shared two children together.

The mother accused the father of sexually assaulting her in 2011, while the pair was still living together. She contends that this was the culmination of long-standing abuse he inflicted upon her, beginning some five months after they were married. She said in some cases, the violence was reciprocal, and they were both at various points arrested for inflicting violence on each other.

Her husband filed for divorce in 2004 in California. A court granted primary physical custody to the father, with regular visitation awarded to the mother. Despite their divorce, the pair continued to live together intermittently over the next several years. Their daughter was born in 2006. The mother would later say the father pushed her down a flight of stairs when she was six-months pregnant because he did not want her to have the child.

She claimed that after the family moved to Massachusetts, she found earrings in their bed that weren't hers. When she questioned her spouse, he reportedly assaulted her while their daughter lay next to them. She suffered a punctured kidney, and he was later arrested.

The pair separated, but again moved back in together about five months later, against the advice of the husband's commanding officer in the U.S. Coast Guard. This pattern continued for years. When the father relocated to Alaska for work, the mother soon followed. In the short lapse, the son developed a severe dental issue, which the father would later blame on the mother's alleged neglect.

Still, the pair continued to live together, and it was during this time that the alleged sexual assault occurred.
The incident was immediately reported to her work supervisors (at a domestic violence shelter). The U.S. Coast Guard also launched an investigation into the alleged incident.  A military protective order was issued and a probable cause hearing on court-marital charges indicated reasonable grounds to believe the assault happened.

A short-term protective order was issued in civilian court, but the magistrate denied a long-term order.

The mother then fled with the children back to Massachusetts, leaving behind only a note to the father. The court-martial charges were dismissed. No civilian criminal charges were ever filed.

A hearing in Massachusetts resulted in the children being sent back to Alaska for custody proceedings. It was there the father was granted full custody.

The mother appealed, but the family court's order was allowed to stand.

As in many domestic violence situations, particularly those involving a couple with extensive history, the facts here were incredibly convoluted. It takes an attorney with extensive experience to highlight to the court the accuser's suffering, even in scenarios where the victim has returned again and again. This is in fact indicative of the classic pattern of domestic violence, which is only recently beginning to gain a greater understanding culturally and within the realm of family law.

The biggest mistake the mother made here was fleeing with her children out-of-state without court approval. She may have felt she had no other choice. We are committed to ensuring that all of our clients have a complete understanding of their options. It's our goal that as you set off on the next chapter of your life, you do so in safety and with every advantage possible.

If you are interested in filing a Brooklyn protection order, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

Yelena R v. George R.,May 23, 2013, Alaska Supreme Court

More Blog Entries:

Davidson v. Carillo - Importance of Attorney Representation in Child Custody Matters, May 30, 2014, Brooklyn Divorce Lawyer Blog


Friday, May 30, 2014

Davidson v. Carrilo - Importance of Attorney Represention in Brooklyn Child Custody Matters

It can be tempting when pursuing action in family court to represent ones' self. After all, it's not required, and why not save the money on attorney's fees, right?

The problem is that this often ends up costing more in the long run, whether directly in cash or assets or, as in cases of child custody, parenting time and other benefits that one may deem important.

Our Brooklyn family law attorneys are dedicated to fighting for our clients, even in complex cases, and we strive to keep our prices reasonable in doing so. That's why we offer $399 uncontested divorce assistance, and $599 uncontested divorce assistance in cases involving children.

These costs should be considered investments in yours and your children's future. The recent case of Davidson v. Carrillo is an illustration of how not hiring an attorney can backfire.

In this case out of Wyoming, the parents had two children together. While both parents were separated, the relationship was cordial and both parents indicated that while they had greatly varying styles of parenting, they each respected the other.

For a time, the older child, who had special needs, was living with the father while the younger child was living with the mother. Both parents worked jobs earning less than minimum wage, though the mother was attending school full-time.

The father filed a petition seeking primary custody of the younger child, indicating it was in the children's best interests to live together, as they shared a close relationship. He also sought child support. He did both things without the aid of an attorney, and both of his requests were granted.

The problem was the terms on which these requests were granted. The parenting time order the court reached essentially gave the mother more daytime hours with the children than the father, despite his position as the parent with primary custody. Additionally, the mother was ordered to pay $280 monthly in child support payments, which the father would later contend were insufficient and improper because no financial affidavit had been requested prior to the order. Also, the court did not order those payments to made retroactively. The father would also later argue that his due process rights were circumvented when the court limited the amount of time during the trial court hearing in which he was allowed to cross-examine his ex-wife.

The Wyoming Supreme Court granted review upon appeal, which was also filed pro se (without a lawyer). The state high court rejected all of the husband's arguments. The court found that most lacked merit, but beyond that, husband had failed to raise objections to these issues during the trial court hearing. Raising objections during hearings - even if they are overruled - preserves the issue for later consideration upon appeal. 

This is something we would not necessarily expect someone who is not an attorney to know. In fact, there are many procedural issues of which the parties involved may not be aware.

By all accounts, this individual fared better than most, having been granted his initial requests. This was likely due to the fact that, by all accounts, he was articulate and respectful and presented a good case. However, the divided outcome shows that this is not always enough.

While it's impossible to say for sure, there is a likelihood that had he been represented by an attorney, the outcome may have been more to his advantage.

If you are contemplating a divorce in New York City, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

Davidson v. Carrillo, May 22, 2014, Wyoming Supreme Court

More Blog Entries:

Negotiating a Fair New York City Divorce Settlement, May 5, 2014, Brooklyn Child Custody Lawyer Blog


Wednesday, May 28, 2014

U.S. v. Fuller - Failure to Pay Child Support Results in Severe Consequences

The criminal conviction of a deadbeat dad was recently upheld by the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Tenth Circuit, where the defendant in U.S. v. Fuller was ordered to pay $54,000 in restitution to the mother of his three (now-grown) children and serve time on probation.

New York City child support attorneys understand that this was the conclusion of a years-long effort to find this man and collect. We are dedicated to ensuring our clients won't have to endure such an ordeal, and that payments can be secured in a timely manner, while the children are still minors and can benefit from those payments - which is the whole point of child support.

One of the most common actions taken against parents who don't pay child support in New York is a contempt proceeding, initiated by the parent to whom the money is owed. These are among the few instances in civil cases where a person can be ordered to serve time in jail. Incarceration can be ordered for an indefinite period until payment is made. The non-paying parent could also be sentenced to a jail term as punishment for failure to comply with the court's earlier orders.

The key to successfully pursuing this option is to prove the non-paying parent has the ability to pay and has willfully failed to do so. The non-paying parent could have a successful defense if he or she can show that they legitimately did not have the ability to pay.

In some cases, the court may find that a parent's lack of a job isn't an excuse. If the court finds the non-paying parent willfully avoided gainful employment, he or she could still be held in contempt.

In pursuing claims against a non-paying parent who lives out-of-state, it's important to understand that the federal Uniform Interstate Family Support Act gives sole jurisdiction to the court in which the child support order was issued.

Additional federal legislation - including the Child Support Recovery Act and the Deadbeat Parents Punishment Act - allow for additional penalties for parents who refuse to pay.

It was under these acts that the defendant in the Fuller case was prosecuted.

According to court records, the couple met in the late-1970s when they both worked at an aviation parts supplier. The two married, divorced and then married again by 1983. Over the course of the next 10 years, the couple had three children.

During this time, the husband quit his aviation parts job to work full-time as a musician. This became a spot of contention in the marriage, as his earnings were meager and there were difficult financial realities involved in providing for three children. The wife would later say that while she believed her husband was talented, he had chosen his music over his children because he refused to get a "real" job, while she worked full-time and had to place the children in daycare.

Eventually, the pair divorced. The husband did not attend any of the hearings, but was ordered to pay a little less than $400 a month in child support. 

He did not. While the wife worked full time, put herself through college and raised the children on her own, the husband sporadically made payments, but none of any significance and never with regularity.

In 1996, the mother sought help in enforcing the child support order, but was deterred by the fees.

More than a decade later, the federal government pursued criminal action against the father. The court called to testify his ex-wife, as well as several club owners who had paid him to perform and child support personnel who had for years attempted to locate him and make him pay.

During trial, the father argued that the government's evidence had shown, at most, that he had only earned $5,200 over the course of 17 years (when the child support order was in effect), and that he lacked any ability to pay.

The court rejected this theory, convicted him and ordered him to serve five years of probation and pay $54,000 in restitution to his ex-wife.

He appealed, but the federal appellate court affirmed the earlier verdict.

If you are seeking enforcement of a child support order New York City, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

U.S. v. Fuller, May 13, 2014, U.S. Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit

More Blog Entries:

Brooklyn Child Custody Cases Can be Impacted by Drug Abuse, May 20, 2014, New York City Child Support Attorneys


Monday, May 26, 2014

White v. Howard - Life Insurance Policy May be Considered a Form of Alimony

Divorcing couples tend to think of "alimony" as monthly payments made in the form of cash to one spouse or the other, usually for a finite period of time that terminates by a certain date or in the event  of remarriage. For the most part, this is exactly true.

However, the Georgia Supreme Court recently handed down a ruling in White v. Howard indicating that other assets (namely, a life insurance policy) could potentially be considered alimony for purposes of divorce. Brooklyn alimony attorneys recognize that this could make certain elements of divorce a bit messier for family courts seeking to ensure both sides are treated fairly.

This case involved a pair married for 35 years at the time of their separation. In the final divorce decree, the court indicated that neither party would be entitled to alimony, but did order the following:

  • That the husband obtain a life insurance policy worth $100,000 that named the wife as the beneficiary and maintain that policy for 12 years.
  • That the wife was to receive half of the husband's pension.
  • That the husband was supposed to make partial payments on the mortgage of the home in the wife's name until such time that the property was sold.

The court specifically stated in its order that these items were to be considered matters of equitable distribution of property - and not alimony. That order was issued in 2007.

Four years later, the wife remarried. Shortly thereafter, the husband filed a pro se motion (meaning without an attorney) seeking to terminate all three of these benefits, arguing they were a form of alimony that should be terminated when she remarried.

The wife responded with a motion to dismiss and a request for attorney's fees. The husband retained an attorney and subsequently filed a motion to modify alimony. A trial court held a hearing and issued a ruling in favor of the wife, dismissing all claims and granting attorneys fees. The court cited the earlier specification that these elements were not alimony, but part of equitable distribution of marital property. 

The husband did not fight back on the issue of the ongoing mortgage payments or pension, but he did appeal the decision as it related to the life insurance policy. He insisted this was a form of alimony. 

The state supreme court ultimately agreed with him. 

The court first explored the definition of periodic alimony, which is when maintenance payments are slated for an indefinite period of time, making the total amount indefinite as well. The court indicated that such orders could be modified if the financial circumstances of either party changed substantially. By contrast, with equitable distribution of assets, the assets in question are fixed, and the trial court doesn't have the authority to modify a final order on these matters, regardless of a change in circumstance. Also, lump sum alimony payments (those wherein the spouse receives a set amount of maintenance to be paid at one time) cannot be modified.

The wife argued in this case that the life insurance policy was a form of either lump sum alimony or equitable distribution, therefore not subject to modification.

The court disagreed with this because of the uncertainty that comes with a life insurance policy - specifically, the unknowable fact of how long the husband is going to live. That means it could be worth the 12 annual premiums he paid, or it could be worth $100,000, plus whatever premiums he paid up until the point he died. Because the value could not be determined, it was subject to modification.

Further, the court cited a previous case (Hawkins v. Hawkins) wherein the court had already established that the obligation to carry life insurance for the benefit of the other spouse is in fact a form of periodic alimony.

On these grounds, the supreme court reversed the trial court's ruling on this matter and remanded for reconsideration, based on the wife's remarriage.

If you are interested in alimony modification in Brooklyn, call our offices at (718) 864-2011.

Additional Resources:

White v. Howard, May 19, 2014, Georgia Supreme Court

More Blog Entries:

Court: Phone Sex Not Grounds for Resetting the Divorce Clock, May 18, 2014, Brooklyn Divorce Lawyer Blog

 


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